Christian Counseling for Codependency

Codependency is an imbalance in a relationship in which one person tries to please the other person by fulfilling their needs at the sacrifice of their own, out of a desire to find significance or to compensate for poor self-esteem, guilt, or shame. At its root, codependent behavior can be viewed as a dysfunctional relationship with one’s self.

Though the term “codependency” is thrown around a lot in casual conversation, it was originally coined to describe the dysfunctional relationship between two people when one of them was an addict of some sort. It is common to find people who have a tendency toward codependency in relationships with addicts or substance abusers. Addiction and codependency go hand in hand and even feed off each other. The codependent is addicted to providing help and care for the addict, and the addict needs the help and the validation that the codependent provides. It is no wonder that in this kind of toxic relationship, both parties suffer.

Though it is difficult, it is possible to break out of the spiral of codependent relationships. Doing so will help both parties develop inner strength and a sense of their own identities. Christian counseling for codependency at Newbury Park Christian Counseling can help people in codependent relationships learn to find their identity and worth in the fact that they were created in God’s image. They can also help the addict to break free from slavery to whatever they are addicted to and find freedom in Christ.

The Christian counselors at Newbury Park Christian Counseling are experienced at helping people work through codependency issues. Regardless of the specific circumstances of your relationship, we are here for you. To learn more or schedule an initial risk-free session, contact us by phone at (424) 361-6196 or visit our online counselor directory.