Kids and Decision Fatigue
Helping kids make decisions can feel like training a horse to gallop across a field of jello – messy, slow, and difficult. We live in a world where we and our children are inundated with stimuli. They see ads for things they want everywhere, they have more pressure and responsibilities than earlier generations, and they’re incredibly busy. Small wonder that it’s hard for kids to make decisions when they have so much to process and take in. As parents, teachers, and caregivers, we want to raise our children to be successful. This includes helping them learn how to make decisions. Adults make an average of 30,000 decisions per day and kids are close to this, too. Setting our children up for a lifetime of successful decision-making can be a game-changer for them. But what about when decision fatigue sets in for them and it seems impossible to make decisions? How do we help them through times like this? How do we discover when it is going on? This article will talk about what decision fatigue is, how you know your child is wrestling with it, and ways to help them through it. Some of these tips (most) are helpful for adults, too, so keep them in your back pocket for the next time you’re facing a difficult decision-making process. What is decision fatigue? Decision fatigue is when we’re unable to decide. It most often occurs during, or right after, periods of stress, transition, trauma, burn-out, overscheduling, or illness. It often happens when you experience many of these factors at once, and it can happen to children and adults. Kids may experience this over a seemingly basic decision like what shirt to wear to school or a bigger decision like if they should do afterschool sports or music programs. Decision [...]
